{"id":45581,"date":"2024-08-16T12:15:00","date_gmt":"2024-08-16T16:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cafemomcom.bigscoots-staging.com\/blog\/wifes-mom-and-boyfriend-want-to-move-in-with-us\/"},"modified":"2024-09-16T01:51:29","modified_gmt":"2024-09-16T05:51:29","slug":"wifes-mom-and-boyfriend-want-to-move-in-with-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cafemom.com\/lifestyle\/wifes-mom-and-boyfriend-want-to-move-in-with-us","title":{"rendered":"My Wife&#8217;s Mom &#038; Boyfriend Didn&#8217;t Prepare Financially &#038; Now They Want To Move In With Us"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We&#39;ve always been raised to <a href=\"https:\/\/cafemom.com\/lifestyle\/conversations-about-aging-and-care-with-elderly-parents\">respect our elders<\/a> and appreciate all they have done for us. 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Depending on the situation, it might be a tough call. <\/p>\n<p><strong>More from CafeMom:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/cafemom.com\/parenting\/my-landlord-wants-to-charge-me-additional-rent-for-my-newborn\">My Landlord Wants To Charge Me $75 per Month for a New Roommate: It&#39;s My Newborn Baby<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We&#39;ve always been raised to respect our elders and appreciate all they have done for us. There is likely nothing we could ever do to repay our parents for their sacrifices, but we&#39;ll do our best to show them our love and gratitude. 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