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During the holidays, however, that&#8217;s not always possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When it comes to <a href=\"https:\/\/cafemom.com\/parenting\/my-niece-was-born-and-now-my-adopted-kids-arent-real-grandkids\">family<\/a>, there are too many ties that bind. It can be difficult navigating differences of opinions versus disrespect and boundary crossing. One mom tried to mitigate any potential drama by warning her family members of one of her parenting decisions before their planned Thanksgiving festivities. But it still seemed to blow up in her face.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>More from CafeMom: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/cafemom.com\/parenting\/tiktok-dad-takes-toddler-son-for-a-mani-pedi\">TikTok Dad Takes Toddler Son for a Mani-Pedi After Teacher Says Nail Polish Is for Girls<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The holidays are here. It\u2019s a joyous time for many, reflecting on the year, eating well, spending more time with family and friends, resting. For others, though, those same family and friends can make these supposed celebratory gatherings stressful and anxiety-inducing. 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